If you have to ask this question then the answer is probably no. If someone took the time to mail you a gift, it would show thoughtfulness to send a written note or card. But on the other hand the email is an acceptable form of communication and it could be a good instant way to thank somebody for a gift. Of course, if you are in doubt that this person includes email as part of their daily life then it would make the email less appropriate. It certainly would be fine with me to receive an email thank-you for a gift I had mailed.

Written cards are alway best. But I feel we're living in the e-world so if you feel that you have time constraints then send a quick thank you via email and remember to send a written one later. In the long run-the handwritten word will win them over.

A hand written card or note is always the best bet. I'm one of those people who never gets to it. I do however call as soon as I recieve a gift in the mail. I also try to call and thank someone who has had me to dinner or as an overnight guest. Try to get the return address right off the package and have cards and stamps on hand. If you make this a habit now, both you and the people you thank will appreciate it. Whatever you do, always acknowledge a gift or kindness as soon as possible.

I am so bad at "Thank you" notes and I love it when I get them. It is always nice. A follow up phone call the next day is nice. I agree that email is fine ... better than nothing, but a card is the best ... I wish I sent more cards.

In the cities and suburbs you do or you can get a fine. It is courteous to pick up after your dog anywhere that people are walking.

This is a question that I think we have to re-think. You are taking something natural and organic and putting it in a plastic bag and throwing it away. Yes, You do need to clean up after your dog in the city, in a public place where it could be stepped on or on your neighbor's lawn, it's the law in many places. But, in some public places, I'm thinking it might be OK to shovel the shit into a wooded area instead of wrapping it in plastic and finding the nearest garbage can. You can train your dog to do his/her business where you want him/her to go. Take him out on leash and reward him/her for going in the place you have chosen. And if that place is in your suburban back-yard, have a way to shovel it where it is needed, it will make the flowers grow.

Clean up after your dog whether it is your neighborhood sidewalk or your own back yard. I live on some acreage and thankfully the dogs go far into the woods usually to do their business. Everynow and then they shit on the lawn and I think it is too insult me aor to mark the territory for the wild animals to know they are present.

When visiting a friend and your dog shits in the yard, front or back, please clean it up. Put it in their trash. I see what Michelle is saying about plastic and we don't need to use extra plastic at a home site so find some old newspaper perhaps and roll it up and put it in your friends trash cans. Don't just throw it in with a shovel or the shit may be stuck on the can itself if it isn't lined with plastic. When you are in a rural area just be aware of what your hosts dog does and if they shit on the lawn or lanscaped areas please pick it up. Ask your host where they want it deposited, otherwise they will be cursing your dog and you when you leave.

 I'm a bit old fashion here and love to give a gift that the couple can appreciate in future years.  For these types of couples, they are usually registered with a department store or home goods store and have a list of things that they already have picked out.  Another great place to look for a special gift is an antique store. There are always treasures to be found.  But some couples do need money, they might be buying their first house or need to furnish their home.  In that case, money is a good choice.  Buy a beautiful card and write a check (just in case it gets separated from the card).  The weddings that I have been to recently have a little decorated box somewhere to drop cards.

Often, money and a nice card are appropriate and expected.  They even make little money bags for the bride to carry as she meets and greets her guests.  For a young couple just starting out, this might be the way to go.  Many of us like to give actual gifts, and many couples register at a store and make a list of the things they want and need.  They will let you know where they have registered via the invitation. Simply contact the store, on-line or in person, take a look at what they have chosen, and select a gift according to your budget.  If you have your own idea about what you want to give, that's OK too.  Just make sure it's something they both will appreciate.

The trick is to return a firm grip without being too forceful. This is the right time to make eye contact, smile and say, "pleased to meet you.", etc.

Make eye contact and if you know the person's name, say it in the salutation. Don't be afraid. Smile.

Remember, we are in the USA. In other parts of the world, direct eye contact, or touching the other person is downright rude. Check customs and manners appropriate to the area you will be travelling before you embarrass yourself.

Grip their hand firmly. Shake solidly, but not too much. Make eye contact and smile if appropriate. I have been meeting people in adversity lately and a smile hasn't always been appropriate. I hate it when a newscaster gives the happy smile leading out of their coverage of a flood or a gruesome accident. I can get carried away when I am meeting someone who I was looking forward to knowing who might be a close friend of a friend, a relative of a friend, a parent of a friend . Sometimes I am too familiar. You can always bring on the exuberance after a bit of conversation when they have had the opportunity to get who you are. I blow this sometimes.

You can only ask if you have worked for the person a few times and have began a professional relationship that includes talking about business. Most people don't like to tell how they make their money on first meeting. It's a bit impolite. However if you have a relationship and you're asking their advise about a particular thing, they might open up to you. If they do, take their info seriously because they obviously know how to make and keep their money.

Ummm? No! Do your job, be pleasant and polite, the information may be offered to you in the course of conversation if you develop a relationship with the people for whom you are working, but you should not be asking personal questions.

Do what you feel is true to yourself. I am not Jewish but since Jesus was as a Christian I see no problem with praying along...but it's probably in Hebrew so mazel tov.

I agree with Cindy, I'm not sure what goes on at a seder but I'm sure it's a loving and appreciative experience so enjoy it.

Why? A prayer is a prayer to whatever higher being you do or don't believe in. Quite honestly, if you were invited it's because these people care for you. You want to be rude and call attention to your differences? Just listen and try to appreciate how lucky you are to have this opportunity.

Every experience is a learning one. It is always good to learn more about different traditions and religions. We live in a diverse world and we can benefit by sharing and exchanging ...

 Usually an usher in a wedding has some hand in planning the bachelor party that happens before the wedding.  Remember the Hangover? Besides that,  your responsible for looking nice, walking ladies down the aisle to show them to their seats and making a toast (if you're the best man).  Weddings are a lot of fun and enjoy the festivities!

 Be honored.  Your real job is to look nice, act charming and escort guests to their seats, but there are a few other responsibilities.  If it's a formal wedding, you will probably have to rent a tuxedo.  Someone will tell you when and where to show up for a fitting and you don't get to pick the style, but you do have to pay the bill. There are usually dinners and parties that you are expected to attend.  Wedding rehearsal dinner and bachelor party come to mind. Then there are photography sessions, wedding rehearsal and the wedding itself. Someone will tell you where you must be when, but you are responsible for showing up, Can't blow it off to watch a basketball game.  You will be told what to do at the rehearsal dinner, don't miss it.  You will be expected to show up early for the wedding and escort guests to their seats, traditionally you offer your right arm to the women and engage them in conversation as you walk them to a seat,  bride's family and friends on the left, groom's on the right, but your cousin's wedding may be less traditional and they may have their own plan for seating.  Usually there is a procession up the aisle of bridesmaids and ushers and a recessional on the way out, but again, rehearsal,  they'll tell you what to do.  Have Fun.

 Not to worry, you have up to a year to send a wedding gift.  As a precaution, take your camera and get a fun shot or the couple.  Just in case if you don't have money within the year, you can send them a beautifully framed photo and a nice card.

Are you ready for this?  According to traditional American etiquette, wedding gifts are purely optional. The book of etiquette answer varies, but most agree that if you choose to give a gift, you have up to a year after the wedding to do so.  If you really have no money at all, try to think of something meaningful that you can give the couple.  Can you knit, are you an artist, photographer?  Can you sing?  These more personal gifts are the most memorable. My personal feeling is that unless these people are extremely selfish,(why would you want to go?), they invited you to their wedding because they want you there, so dust off your dancing shoes.

 Yes, you absolutely can.  Just be polite and honest with them.

 You can say no. Let the bride know how honored you are to have been asked, It is an honor, then, be honest and forthcoming, explain your circumstances.  If you are close to the bride, and if she's asked you to be in her wedding party you should be, she will understand.  

Depends on your style and the relationship. You would not want to overwhelm a person with an expensive gift...or would you? Be creative in any case and do not attach strings when giving gifts.

You should acknowledge the birthday in some way. If it is a new relationship, maybe treat the person to lunch, funny card, flowers, bake a cake or if you're over 21 treat for cocktails. There are several inexpensive ways to say happy birthday.

Everyone should have their birthday recognized. Flowers, dinner, home-cooked or take your friend out for lunch. So many nice ways to say Happy Birthday.

Recognizing a birthday is always a good idea . You may not know enough about them to shop for them. A dinner out, An activity like a picnic or hike. A gift is not necessary, but appreciated.

It is tacky to talk about money.

Yes, it's none your business but some people like to tell you anyway which isn't polite either.

YES!

Yes.

Let the food go-hopefully the date was better than the left-overs!

I don't think so. If your date paid for the meal ask them if they want the left-overs before you take off with them, If not, ask if they mind you taking them home. If you are in a nice restaurant, you might even leave with a tin-foil swan. And if the date goes really well, you might want to share them in the morning.

I think it is fine to take a doggie bag home. Sometimes when you are anxious on a first date and talking more than eating, there is a lot left over. It is great not to waste... especially if you have something that you can use as left overs. Offer it to the date if they paid. A nice rare piece of prime rib should not go to waste ... . Neither a chicken piccatta or eggplant parmesan .

Avoid eating with them first of all since they can easily put a damper on enjoying your meal. If you must try sitting in the same direction as them so you can't see them...

The homecoming queen (you know who you are) at my school was a beautiful, nice, smart girl but OMG did she have terrible table manners. It was like looking at a train wreck, you couldn't help it. Your roommate probably didn't have a parent who insisted upon having nice table manners and you really don't want to become their parent. Just keep doing the right thing and maybe they'll pick it up but if you really can't stand it you might want to suggest they close their months when they chew!

Whether they have bad manners or just an obnoxious way of chewing and breathing , it is hard to "teach " some one manners without insulting their behavior .If is a boyfriend or girlfriend then you will find it important and you can help them know that you want to help them be their best selves ... you have something at stake . If it is just a room mate / friend , then just try to be patient . When you are in a bad mood it will bother you more , so seek privacy and leave them to eat alone .

Today titles are used less frequently then when the moms grew up. If you are not sure I would definatley go with the title and see if you are corrected. Any authority like a teacher or a doctor you would use the title. Everyone likes polite.

Always address an adult by their title, ie Mr. Mrs. Dr.etc unless they tell you differently. You can never go wrong this way.

Mr., Mrs., Dr., Miss, Ms., Yes they are titles that denote respect, and everyone deserves respect. Unless a person asks you to call them by their first name, stick to respecting them until they give you reason not to do so. Of course, if you have been introduced to them by their first name only,or if they request that you call them by their given name, use it.

Like they teach you in martial arts, use restraint in almost all situations. You will be left with the most honor in the end. No one has the right to be rude to you and it would be best to avoid any person who interacts in this way. Try to speak to an adult who may know the rude adult for better insight into the situation.

Remember to always be a bigger person. Try to deflect what the person is saying but be firm and polite. The old saying," do on to others.." is so true. People usually nicer to  people that are come off confident. If they are being rude about your opinion and you believe in it, stand firm and cool. It's way more fun to win someone who is a jack*** with your charm then getting frustrated or insulted.

Sadly, many adults expect young people to respect them, but do not extend the same courtesy to the young people they meet. You know them. Your father's friend who loudly states "Why would you do that to your hair, you look ridiculous!" No matter how tempting, Do not say, "At least I have hair!" Answer respectfully, " OH! I'm so sorry you don't like it, I tried so hard to look nice tonight." He will realize he was out of line, and walk away feeling worse then if you had justified his belief that young people with different hairstyles are just plain rude. Keep your sense of humor with these people.

If you are invited for a meal it is appropiate to bring a small gift. A plant, seasonal fruit, flowers, a bakery treat is always welcome. Do not give wine or any alcohol if you are not over 21.

A bottle of wine, flowers, plant or candles would all be appropiate gifts. Also write a nice Thank-you note.

I like to bring different kinds of tea or coffee, for a more formal gift,add a Pretty teapot, or interesting coffee mugs.

A small orchid is one of my favorite gifts to give and to receive, Trader Joes always has a good deal on them. Whole foods, flowers and plants are a little bit nicer and healthier even though perhaps a bit more expensive,  and it is always nice to have the personal assistance in picking out a plant and get the growing instructions and find out about light requirements and watering instructions at a small nursery.